KWTC Lecture - Lecture 4 and 5

 
Date:
July 2, 1980
Location:
Espanola, NM
 
 
 
 

(Song “GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. ” is being played in the class.)

Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ka Khalsa, Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ki Fateh”

Students: “Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ka Khalsa, Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ki Fateh”

Student: I request Mukhiya Singh Sahibji to introduce Baba Nihal Singhji.

Mukhiya Singh Sahibji: I don’t know what I can say to you other than the Siri Singh SahibSiri Singh Sahib Honorary title given to Yogi Bhajan to indicate his role as spiritual leader of Sikh Dharma in the West. His complete title within Sikh Dharma is Siri Singh Sahib Bhai Sahib Harbhajan Singh Khalsa Yogiji. has introduced him more than (?) than I can do. But I can tell you one thing and he did that (?) to so on the other day he said, “They should go visit Babaji, who is a very special person and very special and very high regarded because if you want to meet the tenth master, if you want to meet GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. Guru Gobind Singh Tenth Guru of the Sikhs. Gobind SinghGuru Gobind Singh Tenth Guru of the Sikhs. go spend time with him because he dwells completely within him.” So on that I will (?), Babaji over to you.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: In daily prayer, daily ardasArdas Prayer; the formal group prayer of the Sikhs. , we all ways say, that the women who in need (?) prison, grinded the grains. Their children were cut into pieces. Made the garlands with their intestines, put around their necks. They were tortured, but they never gave up the religion. Meditate on those women and Khalsa JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. bolo SatSat Existence; what is; the subtle essence of Infinity itself. Sat Naam , Sat Nam The essence or seed embodied in form; the identity of truth. When used as a greeting it means "I greet and salute that reality and truth which is your soul." It is called the Bij Mantra - the seed for all that comes. Sat Naam , Sat Nam The essence or seed embodied in form; the identity of truth. When used as a greeting it means "I greet and salute that reality and truth which is your soul." It is called the Bij Mantra - the seed for all that comes. NamSat Naam , Sat Nam The essence or seed embodied in form; the identity of truth. When used as a greeting it means "I greet and salute that reality and truth which is your soul." It is called the Bij Mantra - the seed for all that comes. Naam , Nam The manifested identity of the essence. The word derives from Naa-ay-ma , which means "that which is not, now is born." A Naam gives identity, form, and expression to that which was only essence or subtle before. It is also referred to as the Word. .

Students: Siri Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. .

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: Those woman lived up to the principles and devotedly lovingly, those principles up to their last breath.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: In those times the rulers, mogul rulers, emperors tried their best that these Sikh women leave their religion and become Muslim.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: And that’s why they were tortured so much.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: Before their eyes their children were cut into pieces.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: And those pieces were made into garlands and put around their necks.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: Children were thrown up in the air and then there were the spear was they were cut in the spear.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: The pieces that those cut pieces were forcibly put in their mouth.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: And then asked are you going to do leave your religion and become Muslim or not.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: This GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. Guru Gobind Singh Tenth Guru of the Sikhs. Gobind SinghGuru Gobind Singh Tenth Guru of the Sikhs. ’s daughter made it light.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: You may cut my head but I’m not going to leave my religion.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: In their hearts, in their mind they remembered the example of GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. Teg Bahadur who told come what may don’t lose your faith. Just be devoted to GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. ’s feet, meditate all the time.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: What was that power in those women?

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: It was the power of AmritAmrit , Aamrit The nectar of bliss; also the ceremony in which a person dedicates their life to the Khalsa. .

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: The quality, the greatest quality was that every with every breath they chanted NamNaam , Nam The manifested identity of the essence. The word derives from Naa-ay-ma , which means "that which is not, now is born." A Naam gives identity, form, and expression to that which was only essence or subtle before. It is also referred to as the Word. and their only pleasure and support was the GurbaniGurbani Word of the Guru, Refers particularly to the words from the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. .

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: Their spirit was strong.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: The spirit becomes strong all it was by the SimranSimran A deep meditative process in which the naam of the Infinite is remembered and dwelled in without conscious effort. and GurbaniGurbani Word of the Guru, Refers particularly to the words from the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. .

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: The spirit, which is strong can never be won in the world by any other power.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: That is why this was the (?) quality that they could live up to the last breath was failed. They sacrificed themselves and became the great martyrs.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: And they set the path for all of us.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: Today we should get the inspiration from the lives of those great beautiful martyrs.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: First thing is that we should have the devotion and faith in GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. .

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: And through SevaSeva Selfless Service. the heart of the Aashram experience is serving each other. , SimranSimran A deep meditative process in which the naam of the Infinite is remembered and dwelled in without conscious effort. and GurbaniGurbani Word of the Guru, Refers particularly to the words from the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. Nithnem, we should make our spirit strong.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: I’m very pleased to see Khalsa hail.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: The great, great blessings of GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. Guru Gobind Singh Tenth Guru of the Sikhs. Gobind SinghGuru Gobind Singh Tenth Guru of the Sikhs. .

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: That Khalsa is from that saint emerging hail.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: I pray to GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. and God from my deepest thought.

Baba Nihal Singhji: (Punjabi)

Student: May this Khalsa progress day and night.

Baba Nihal Singhji: Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ka Khalsa, Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ki Fateh.

Students: Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ka Khalsa, Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ki Fateh.

(Song is played in the class)

(Students applause)

Student: (?) She stood up.

(Students laughter)

Why standing I’m shorter than you all. Because you are all very tall ladies. SatSat Existence; what is; the subtle essence of Infinity itself. Sat Naam , Sat Nam The essence or seed embodied in form; the identity of truth. When used as a greeting it means "I greet and salute that reality and truth which is your soul." It is called the Bij Mantra - the seed for all that comes. Sat Naam , Sat Nam The essence or seed embodied in form; the identity of truth. When used as a greeting it means "I greet and salute that reality and truth which is your soul." It is called the Bij Mantra - the seed for all that comes. NamSat Naam , Sat Nam The essence or seed embodied in form; the identity of truth. When used as a greeting it means "I greet and salute that reality and truth which is your soul." It is called the Bij Mantra - the seed for all that comes. Naam , Nam The manifested identity of the essence. The word derives from Naa-ay-ma , which means "that which is not, now is born." A Naam gives identity, form, and expression to that which was only essence or subtle before. It is also referred to as the Word. . Siri Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ka Khalsa, Siri Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ki Fateh.

Students: Siri Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ka Khalsa, Siri Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ki Fateh.

Bibiji: In the beginning I must thank Dr. Satya Paul Kaur who really put me across as if I am a genius, which I’m not. I’m just a human being but I have been working very hard. Probably I suffered through pains in my childhood, to cut them off I had to take refuge in poetry, which I did without knowing without understanding. I started writing (?) I can’t answer your questions. When I became aware I was already a know poet. That was the grace of God. So once you are one step automatically you take the second and the third, the fourth, if you don’t slip up. So I did not slip up that is God’s grace again. That is what is now bringing me back to DharmaDharma A path of righteous living. It is both an ideal of virtue and a path of action that is infused with clear awareness and comprised of actions that are the soul in total synchrony with the universe. It is action without reaction or karma. apart from my activities. So spiritual I always was, because without being spiritual you cannot write poetry. Poetry in essence is spiritual expression.

I started talking about poetry, I wanted to talk about women, about ourselves. I feel when I had been here for four-three weeks in the New Mexico and I saw you are Samskrits and I have been watching you in your camp I think you are very lucky. You are so lucky I went over the programs, which you had, various nine or ten. I was here on the day of orientation. I think really if one can achieve all that. That makes you a complete woman, which is very difficult. But once you are a complete woman then you are a God. And if you go on this is the (?) I think if you go on, you are so self-reliant self assured self sufficient. These are the qualities of God. And you are really lucky and we need to be like because we are women. Woman is a mother, a daughter, a wife, a grandmother, a sister. So many relationships we have to maintain them in a very precarious balance. And if we don’t then what happens you all know better than I do.

If we slip up then the family breaks away. The children run away, the husbands go from woman to woman. And we ourselves also do the same thing. I think if a woman can make this world. I mean only a woman can make this world beautiful, a place worth living. Man is so helpless he is like a child. He is insecure, I’m not trying to minimize his importance, but I’m trying to say the fact. The moment they cut the cord from the mother from the same very moment he starts feeling insecure because we had in our wombs the source of life we are creative being, they are not. We have source of love hid in us. They have not. They are so insecure the moment they are alone. They will like to be somebody else. Does not matter who. Good or bad, right or wrong. Sometimes in the west I think woman have done so cruel. They are doing him even now they want to be alone. They don’t want to face themselves. It was not always so (?). This was not always so.

You know when we were in a agricultural society man and woman. They were working together at all levels, if they were in the fields they were together, if they were at home they were together. They were raising children they were together, looking after that cattle they were together. While building a barn they were together. But when the industrial like society came into being in the mid eighties I think that was the parting time. Man went out early in the morning taking his lunch with him to work in the factory and woman stayed behind to look after the children, washed clothes and they became resentful. And man became bitter because when he came home, he wanted company, and she was so tired being alone and frustrated that she wanted to go out with him. And he said no I’m too tired, we will just stay at home and she says oh.

So that was the first time I think men we had a quarrel between man and we and it went on and on became more complicated. He lost his values and she lost her values and the family broke up. And we in the sixties you must remember probably just remember it. It is still going on, the movement of liberation we wanted liberation, we wanted equality. Legal equality in India we have, I don’t know about you, I think you have. We have perfect legal equality with the man. To inherit property of father, to have the right to work, to earn my livelihood, to do everything I have. To divorce, to marry, whatever I like. But my society is too rigid. I won’t be able to do it if I want to, there are so many pressures, but not here. You don’t have those pressures. There are different problems here and different in the east. But I am talking of this movement of liberation we had so many slogans that we want equality. And we had to pay for it that men stopped getting up from the seats to give us a seat in a bus even when we were ill. They stopped opening the car doors for us, which was very arrogant. All these things, but I think there is nobody free in the world. There is nothing like freedom. What is freedom I don’t understand. Freedom has to be within yourself.

If you liberate yourself from within you are liberated. You must not we must not all women, because I’m talking about us. We have to create an equilibrium of forces in which we can exist, our children can live happily and grow without fear. In my lifetime I have seen one World War that was Second World War. You probably haven’t seen that. Some of you haven’t seen it. And I have seen the partition of my country into Pakistan and India. I have been reading about war in Korea. I know about war in Vietnam. I know what is happening in Afghanistan. I know what is happening in Iran. And how the whole world is in turmoil now. And if we don’t stop we don’t know what will happen to our children. The scars left on our minds, our souls, the pain, which we went through, when the country was divided. The relatives, which we left behind never to see them again. The homes, which we lost, I think we don’t want to repeat it again. We do believe in peace we want to live in peace. Yet the forces let us live in peace. And I think a mother can do in lot in this sphere.

Even the clash between man and woman, which comes on every step it comes even if we want to avoid it, we are not saints. We are human beings made of Panch TattvasTattvas A category of cosmic existence; a stage of reality or being; a "thatness" of differentiated qualities. In total there are 36 tattvas. Each wave of differentiation has its own rules and structure. The final five tattvas are called the gross elements and have the phasic qualities and relationships of ether, air, fire, water, and earth. . We realized, anger is there, ego is there, frustration is there, unfulfillment is there. So we are not saints, we are not angels that we will forgive and forget we might forget they will never forgive that is our nature. But we can if we start the right way with our child specially the son. That is the way to be equal to man. God is not pleased, is He pleased? We call up on Him twenty-four hours of the day doesn’t matter whether He sleeps or awakeful. We really wake Him up. Listen to us, we are in pain, we are in trouble, we are at problem, please solve it for us we pray, we never look at the watch whether it is exact in time. We do take care when our mother is asleep not to wake her up. We take care my husband is resting, therefore nobody should ring up try to put off all the telephones. So that nobody, nobody rings up and no noise is made. But God, no, never. Whenever we want we knock the door and we knock loudly. We ask Him to answer our problems straightaway sometimes He does straightaway solve it in a very subtle way, which we don’t understand.

So freedom let’s forget about the slogans of freedom and I have read about some pros going processions here in America that women wanted freedom, they wanted to be equal and institution of marriage and family, is no good for us. But I think that is the only way to be able to be free and to live a perfected life. When do we have relationships, which are lasting, which don’t get absorbed in air and that can be created by woman only. Man is only a toy in our hands.

(Students laughter)

Let us believe so, he is a toy in our hands. The other day at the country side when I spoke I was full of emotion Yogiji said something and I am a very emotional being, being a poet and I can’t…, he repeated I don’t remember exactly what it was but I have received many letters from you. I have received many messages that you appreciated that. Now there is a little secret in that sort of feeling, if you try to know your man. If you try to know the person whom you love and that’s a great thing they don't love. Man may not say may not believe in it. He says, what is love? That sexual feeling for half an hour. Maybe fifteen minutes for him that is all. For us that is not enough. That is only a expression of love. For us love is something, which is very stable and that stability that even if a man tries to break it, yet it will not be broken. That should be our determination. It is easy to walk out, difficult to walk in, once the door is closed behind us.

So you know, we in India are told when we get married the last words of my mother and father was, “You are going as a bride, go get out of that house as a dead body on the shoulder of your husband.” And that is what we always remember. So many things in life happen where you don’t agree with each other. You don’t really see eye to eye maybe while you are bringing up children. Maybe when they go to school and you want to drift you are drifting on. Which school they go to. When they are getting married and so many other things whether you are going to see a picture or watch movie or not. Whether you want to listen to music or not. So many little things in everyday life routine life which are irritant to us or to them also.

But if we handle those situations well, that door of the family it is not ours only to close because we have children. And if we have no children then we have parents, and if we have no parents then we have friends. We must look all around and see whether all these people will be hurt, if I take this step. I should forget myself as a woman because I am the creator. Remember we are back again. Creator does not get angry. He may get angry but does not destroy. We must not destroy and relationships are like very, very delicate steps. And that as man is always all. Always ready to break because his tension nature is like a butterfly he likes to go to every flower. Let, him he will come back I’m quite sure, because he needs sense of security, he needs an easy chair at home and don’t mind being that.

Sometimes I taunt my husband, oh you have come back because I’m an easy chair, because you know I understand you and you will have comfortable time. Oh he laughs I know that. It is such a situation that all of us can laugh. A man never goes away if you can keep him and if unfortunately if that time comes when you people cannot keep him then look around and see who can help you to keep him. And why we keep him. Why should we keep him? You ask this question. Why should we keep him because we love him. First of all we chose him to love him. Why should we marry him? We married him, because we love him the best of them all. These are the steps we had to go because you know the best man in the world so he is the only man in the world first. There is no other. I cannot look at a man and feel that he is a man, only my husband he is sitting here so I can’t talk (?) my apology.

But it is a fact when you love once, I don’t say you can’t love again. Love is a flowing river, you can love, but love without sensuality, sexuality. You can establish such great spiritual relationship, which I have had in my life very well. I have respected and loved very many great men in the world actually. My friends if I count I count them amongst the kings, among is a yogisYogi One who has attained a state of yoga (union) where polarities are mastered and transcended. One who practices the disciplines of yoga and has attained self-mastery. , among is a poets. You know internationally I can count so many and I think that he really knows them. But they are all my spiritual friends I can talk to them I can laugh with them. But I have never looked at them as man. Only one man for me and that is my husband. And second man will be my father. Which I have never have, I have sons and daughter. Why I think that son is going to start (?) the training I’m talking about. When I said in the beginning that a woman can change the whole world. You know we always treat our daughters very well. We train them we protect them.

But we spoil our sons we don’t let them understand the values. Oh they slip away from us, because it is woman’s world he has to be with the man he has be outside. He has to fight he has to survive so he gets the best, but he doesn’t get the protection and he doesn’t get the training to respect them. He should be taught to respect woman in your lap and that is the time that you can bring about a revolution in the whole system. It is a man made world we cannot deny it. Man made these rules and codes of conduct for his own good. For his own comfort, if he does something, oh he is creating a moment. If we do something they blame us. If we understand that the man made these rules and conducts for his own comforts then we should defeat it in his own game. He is trying to deceive us, he is trying to cheat us for his own good. But let us understand them.

If we talk with our son that he is not able to cheat, he is not able to deceive, but respect. Respect his values. Respect his mother and wife and sister. He will become a better man and he will rationalize the whole society and we will get the equality, which we demand automatically but if we don’t get still we don’t care. I think we should create that equilibrium of forces in the household in a small unit, family, which is the nucleus of a bigger family, we will able to solve this problem and I think you are… again I repeat. You are learning to be good mothers, good wives, good companion, good citizens. There is another thing which I would like you to add and that is to learn cooking.

(Students laughter)

It is a part of us you know I have I know you all cook, after all you don’t live on hunger. You cook and you sow also probably you do better thing which will bring you better money, which you can give to somebody else to who sow for you or worked for you. But it will please your mind when you know how to cope up within yourself. And next course we must start, cooking courses and (?) courses. And I (?) done myself (?). And now Yogiji is here. “Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ka Khalsa, Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ki Fateh.”

Students: “Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ka Khalsa Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. JiJi Soul; used as an endearment or sign of respect. Ki Fateh.”

(Students applause)

YB: Isn’t she a good girl?

Students: Yeah.

(Students applause)

YB: It takes a very… about her I have a very special thing to tell you. And which every girl has to learn, she is very intelligent, but she never competes with her husband. You know the greatest intelligence is when you do not compete and provoke. The greatest intelligence is when you compete to make another person progress. That is what I have learned with her stay with me. She is very intelligent very deep but she doesn’t provoke and unfortunately woman with intelligence if doesn’t provoke then there must be some hand of divine stopping her.

(Students laughter)

Normally they must… There is a one faculty today the subject is the same it is the inner concept and the projection. God made woman as a creative being and God made woman a possible being to create the creativity and continue the humanity I understand, it is a very respectable institution to be a woman. But in projection there is one thing, which misses every woman that is called grace. They are very shabby, they are very showy, they are very inviting, and they are very gossipy and they unnecessary get into trouble without knowing what the hell is there waiting for them. And this is the criteria and projection where woman is responsible for her own destruction.

I give you one example. Example of a beautiful woman, if you are beautiful you are beautiful God has blessed you with beauty. But that will never satisfy a beautiful woman. Now what she wants to do, she wants to do something funny or fussy in which her beauty should be glared upon. Now if you provide any such opportunity naturally there will be actions and reactions. It is the story of a person who once put seven-carat diamond ring and went out in a ghetto and started showing all those kids look at my ring, does it shine, it is a real diamond, what happened? By the end of the street they all got together beat him took away his ring, broke his finger and that is the end of it. And this is the story of every woman. It is unfortunate thing it is very unpleasant it is unacceptable.

Woman wants to provoke to recreate environment to reach her own faculties, which she knows they are… I satSat Existence; what is; the subtle essence of Infinity itself. on a settlement of a divorce case very painful now what was the reason for that divorce the wife was very intelligent. And her husband’s words quote unquote “she discusses with me to death.” And you believe me or not in those days a four hundred thousand dollars fully paid house well furnished was a good thing, right? Nine years ago it was lot of money. He walked away from that house in his own garden dress when he used to do the gardening. That dress that is the only dress he took away and his car and I asked him why? He said, “This woman, this house and any vibration where she has spoken or that has to been were to I don’t want to touch. I will make more money, I will live my own life” and he wrote down he will never like to see the children also.

Three sons, one daughter he walked away from that, gave her fifty thousand dollars to maintain the children where requirement was not that. With a promise that she will never call him on telephone come what may. I was a party to it. I tried my best to reason with him. He agreed with me he understood it, well he said, “Sir you are very good man, you are my teacher I learnt from you lot. I have changed my life, but I can’t understand this woman at all. She discusses me to?”

Students: Death.

YB: “Death.” Now it doesn’t matter whether you are intelligent or you are dumb you are beautiful or you are ugly. You can do laundry or you can’t, you are good in bed or not, you are sexually wonderful or not. This all paraphernalia is your personality, it has nothing to do. Question is very direct how you project your inner concept. How? Now I want to tell you one thing. It doesn’t matter whether you are Ph. D or you have never been to school.

But if you use filthy language or driver’s language you will never have a respect from a man you talk to. Driver’s language filthy language abusive language is men’s domain. You must make it clear, I’m not saying you should not use it. I mean don’t misunderstand me use it and pay for it. I’m not asking you don’t misunderstand me that I’m discriminating. That woman cannot use why men can use, no, no, no, my dear use it. But you will never be respected. That I can guarantee you, I also guarantee you that all your mental inward perverted polarity traumas, which in another words you have a personality and you have a conflict with your own personality.

If any man with whom you have a sexual relationship he knows about it. You are off, you are not worth once. He will never trust you. It is a dead tragedy they call it. All he has to know that you have a personality and you have also a conflict with your own personality. Then for his purpose and for his expansion you are useless because he is not marrying you for sex, he is not marrying you for skin, he is not marrying you for your turban, he is not marrying you for your food. He is marrying you for only one thing. And you know what, he is marrying you for that comfortable talk which he can communicatively talk to you in confidence. He is marrying you for nothing but confidence.

All men A to Z lie from one thing to everything. Oh I married you because you are beautiful, I married you because divine wanted it, I married you, you are pretty, I married you, you are mother of my children, I married you because you have inspired me to be a Sikh and all that, it is all bunch of lies. These marriages do not last only in one case the marriage will last where man can sit down relax and talk to her and she say yes I know we’ll do something, don’t worry it will be all fine, I know you are tired, but I fully understand. I have already a plan I knew circumstance. She may not understand a thing.

(Students laughter)

He needs a consoling counseling friend, every man needs it. It is his inner feeling a guidance a uplift of spirit and that is called inflow of the mother through a woman. She is not a mother remember mother is a mother. Inflow of a mother it is a very simple terminology. Whenever the man is tired his guards are down at that time he needs the mama, he doesn’t need a woman. What is a woman thirty dollars, fifty dollars, hundred dollars, you can buy her. And they are very commercial well to do, well done clean perfect. They can satisfy you and in America even thirty dollars is too much. They will pay you thirty bucks. So what is the big deal, sex, write it up. Social security, write it up, why? If you are going to bitch him he is going to say well I’m sorry my karmaKarma The law of cause and effect applied to mental, moral, and physical actions. Ego attaches us to and identifies us with objects, feelings, and thoughts. These attachments create a bias toward certain lines of action. Instead of acting you begin reacting. Karmas are the conditions required in order to balance or complete these tendencies. Though necessary, karma is not dictatorial or fatalistic. It is the mechanism that allows the finite experience of existence to maintain and stabilize itself. We all have free will and can take actions to re-direct the momentum of a karma. We can transform it or neutralize it using meditation, jappa, good deeds, or intuition that remove your sense of ego and the identification with that past line of action. , I’m married to a bitch you can touch her tail, men do that they openly say, well you know John leave it alone, you know she is a bitch. Let’s go to the bar let’s have fun. So there is no bond in that way either, so sex is out social life is out, right. Money, woman earns man earns. Both can survive, children either she will have a custody or he will have a custody finally it will be joint custody. You if analytically bifurcate the whole thing between a male and a female there is no relationship except he is horny he wants to get out and she is horny she wants in. Oh that you can make there are so many clubs, telephone calls, you know free press Los Angeles can give me more invitations plus good party.

(Students laughter)

I don’t think so. It is right sometime you get totally fed up, it is not what you need. You want to swap your wife I can give you the address of ten clubs. It is ridiculous, but there is a one most wanted needed and desirable and life giving thing one only one, one. In the rhythmic cycle of the man there comes only one hour in twenty four hours, when his guards are down, it is called rhythmic change hour, rhythmic change?

Students: Hour.

YB: A woman who cannot handle her she better run away for her life that marriage will never last that friendship will never last and that relationship will never last. You can do it with sex, you can do it with massage, you can do it with talking, you can give him a grape juice, you can give him grape fruit, you can beat him up, you can throw him out of the window or you can put him on a throne it does not matter but that hour if he feels satisfied, if, quote big letters. If I-F if he feels settled in that point of hour that man will tear you down like a puppy. Rest is all gossip, circumstantial may, may not yes, no, possible, may not possible, all joke. There is absolutely no relevance to it, any woman who takes pride in her beauty, in her money, in her security in her children is primarily joking with herself. Have you not seen men divorcing very rich woman, is it not. Have you not seen men divorcing the… That projection, inner concept must be projective and what is inner concept. What is the very inner concept of the woman I’m, I’m. The creativity of the Creator. Sometimes I wonder I see woman arguing, I mean it looks very rational but it is ridiculous. As a woman if you have a inner concept and if you have a proper projection you need not argue. He says I want this way this way this way, okay fine John that is the way, okay. Don’t argue. [Audio missing - And next day he will say I told you, this is has to be this way and you said I just forgot it can’t I.

(Students laughter)

I just forgot it, now explain to me again. When you ask him to explain to you again three fourth of it, he will be forgetting it.

(Students laughter)]

So you will have to deal with one fourth. And then he will say, “Did you hear this time I told you clearly,”

“Wonderful I understood” and next day when you are taking a cup of YogiYogi One who has attained a state of yoga (union) where polarities are mastered and transcended. One who practices the disciplines of yoga and has attained self-mastery. tea with him tell him I fully understand what you said but could you explain to me in full detail what you said. And he’ll say, “Get it man I can’t take it any more.”

(Students laughter)

And you are out, why to argue fight and have a, you know cup going this way, saucer going that way, why? What is the big deal, any scheme it is a God’s creativity. Any scheme I mean don’t forget that the man is a YogiYogi One who has attained a state of yoga (union) where polarities are mastered and transcended. One who practices the disciplines of yoga and has attained self-mastery. and all that, that forget about that part but normal man cannot remember his total scheme more than seventy two hours. This is how the brain is made. After seventy-two hours it sends everything to subconscious. So it is ridiculous to argue and fight, if you are married to a man who is a husband or your friend or anybody you know he is a Virgo. And he has unfortunately sometime of a mind like moon in the Taurus or moon in the Cancer or moon in the Capricorn. Those three moons then it is a very simple way, tell him to write it down. You are out of the hook.

(Students laughter)

These three signs will never like to write down themselves their own schemes. This zodiac sign was not originated because we wanted to collect ten dollars for reading a horoscope, it was a proper study of every man and every woman. Categorically just project one thing, that you are well founded well–groomed, well bred and very, very graceful. Just make a carved motive, you know those Jews they put a thing here that leather stuff up there when they do the prayer. So I mean to say, it is a dumb thing to say that thing is there to forget that there is a God so that reminds them that there is a God right here. So instead of remembering here they put that stuff there. Exactly the same thing you should put it here. There is a image which a woman has to live with whether you like it or not. I’m not asking you to like it. I’m not asking you to dislike it. If you like it or not that has nothing to do but this image you have to live with, you are well founded you are well bred and you are very well graceful person. This projection has to be well guarded and second thing is the mismanagement. Mismanagement is in the bed you discuss the kitchen, in the kitchen you discuss the living room, in living room you discuss the bed. It is called?

Students: Mismanagement.

YB: Mismanagement, must understand that men cannot even comprehend, they have a very shallow capacity, when they are in a working mood they are not in a sex mood. When they are in sex mood they are not in a food mood. When they are in eating mood they are not in this. They normally by nature do one thing just at one time and woman does three things at one time. Now don’t blame men for it. God didn’t make them that way and man did not make that way because woman is a mother, woman is a wife and woman is a woman. For three faculties whether you are married you are not whether you have a child or not. Whether you are you or not. These three faculties and the mechanism is installed in the brain the hormones and the magnetic field is originally and comprehensively and creatively is there. But with men nothing, that is why lot of marriages fall apart in America. When they start watching fullball, football game they call it on television.

Students: Yes.

YB: You can put a fire to the house.

(Students laughter)

The woman can be raped.

(Students laughter)

Children can die of an accident but football game continues. Isn’t that a normal complaint in America? Once a woman asked another woman well we want to give a party would you people come she said, “No we will come after such and such time.”

She said, “Why?”

She said, “You know John, he is going to become a football.”

(Students laughter)

So practically you have in the western society seen certain things you may not forget them or you may not even like to remember them, but it is my duty to let you know. Thinking the man at what time needs something it can be postponed to other times is the most ridiculous thing you do. And most of the wives do this. When he is hungry they start discussing with him rehirasRehiras One of the daily prayers of the Sikhs, recited in the evening which adding energy to one's being. . I mean why don’t you call some other girlfriend of your and discuss with her whatever you want. The guy is hungry, he is tired, he has come, he wants it and give him food and get rid of it. Deal things simply don’t complicate, you mostly complicate because you have nothing else to do.

Remember never provoke a camel and never pretend with a man. Pretend woman discusses as a pretension that is one of the most ridiculous thing in this human being called woman. They pretend they are normal, they pretend they don’t know. They pretend they didn’t hear and they are very good at it. And once by (?) of God cruel thing, man may know that she is pretending she is pretending to ignore him. She is pretending oh my God, you have a trouble, which can last years and years. I can give you one example there was a marriage and this guy was so hateful of his parents that he point bluntly told them not to come, they pleaded with his wife look our son has been not with us for eighteen years. We have done blunders mistakes but now we are old we want to come we want to give him, show him the will, we want to leave the copy of it. We will not even stay in the house, we will eat vegetarian, we don’t drink, we are this, we are that, whole thing whatever. And she took three days to convince him to let his parents come in. Can you understand the situation?

Students: (…………..)

YB: Okay. That is how it was. And ill luck would have it, they came they stayed they were beautiful. The son was not taking any care the daughter in law was taking every care. And on table of food when there was a discussion, her husband took upon herself to feel that she was pretending that she is not listening. Father was talking something and later on the husband said, “Do you know what my dad said?” She said, “I don’t know.” She really didn’t listen that was the fact, but he felt that she knows and she is telling me that she does not know. There was so unbearable fight between the two that finally it was so painful that guy walked out of the house. She asked me that question, why? I asked him the question why? And his answer was very simple she can marry my father, he said.

Total trust was lost, faith was lost, trust was lost there was nothing in relationship. And I asked her I said, “Dummy when you knew that he doesn’t like his parents for eighteen years he has such a anger in himself and when he was talking to you it was a simple thing, “John I didn’t hear it. Let me go and ask the dad what he said and I will come and give it to you.” Matter would have ended and she said to me I never knew I was dumb I thought I was doing very well. The basic concept in a man is what he calls is a woman is sheer trust, it is a sheer trust there is no big deal about it. Either you are trustworthy or you are not trustworthy doesn’t mean you are intelligent or you are dumb these are all paraphernalia’s, they are decorations.

Therefore the inner projection, which is the inner concept is the deliverance. Do you deliver the confidence or you don’t. And now you can ask me a question what about men. It is their habit to feel confident. Ask any man he may not know anything, but it is a very insincere thing to say, for them to pretend is a habit. For you to pretend is a intention, that is why when I say woman and man are two different species absolutely different polarities but unfortunately the axle of creativity is between them and that is keeping them together. There is a characteristic criteria of a woman to be a woman and there is a characteristic criteria of a man to be man. They are person they are human being but they do not belong to the same level of activity.

Therefore their activities are complementary and supplementary and they have to be coordinated, got it? I know you have to read here these notes and then work it out because what I read from you is God why you made woman? Well I’m sorry why God made you woman he didn’t consult me and the greatest handicap, which you can face in your life is when you cannot deliver your creativity efficiently. You have to be creative and efficient. One thing all men like and you can see them boasting, should I tell you what it is. Oh my wife forget it man she can do everything, sit sometime and put that what they call through which you can over hear them and when five six of those your friends of you sit together as men and they start gossiping you will never see them putting you down. They put you…, this is what they do, they put down the woman at home and put her up outside and if you do not provide something to them they put you up outside, that you better leave the home. A man shall live by one virtue that he has to have something to brag about his wife. If you do not provide him anything to brag about you better go and live in china.

(Students laughter)

Do you understand what I’m talking about? And man will only brag when he is fully convinced, then only he can multiply, so inner concept with outer projection is a relative term and the coordinating factor is how you handle intelligently the condition of the circumstances and deliver it, this is the foot note. Now you can ask me questions, yeah.

Student: (……………..)

YB: Yeah, this conflict to your personality it can come through a constant depression. It can come through a childhood negation. It can come through some life accident and it can come through lot of things. But one thing it can get rid of, you may be interested in get rid of, get rid of there are certain meditationsMeditation Dhyan. It is a process of deep concentration or merger into an object or a state of consciousness. Meditation releases reactions and unconscious habits and build the spontaneous and intuitive link to awareness itself. , but to develop a meditative mind through meditationMeditation Dhyan. It is a process of deep concentration or merger into an object or a state of consciousness. Meditation releases reactions and unconscious habits and build the spontaneous and intuitive link to awareness itself. you can get rid of this inner inverted concept. It is not necessary that you have to live with it. But necessarily it requires a work out. Try to work out for one week without meditating absolutely and try to work out one and measure those two weeks and one week with meditationMeditation Dhyan. It is a process of deep concentration or merger into an object or a state of consciousness. Meditation releases reactions and unconscious habits and build the spontaneous and intuitive link to awareness itself. . Start your day with meditationMeditation Dhyan. It is a process of deep concentration or merger into an object or a state of consciousness. Meditation releases reactions and unconscious habits and build the spontaneous and intuitive link to awareness itself. and end your day with meditationMeditation Dhyan. It is a process of deep concentration or merger into an object or a state of consciousness. Meditation releases reactions and unconscious habits and build the spontaneous and intuitive link to awareness itself. and live your day meditatively. There is nothing to hurry before uttering few words just meditate. See what you are going to say what he is going to do. There is whole workout for this before you proceed to deliver anything. Meditatively understand the effect of it, what effect it can have. And it may take first maybe a one minute to think then it will take half a minute to think, then it will take one second to think and then it will take nothing. And that day you have developed in you a meditative mind. It is a practice.

You can understand my difference, when I teach I tune in myself into meditative being I can speak the language, I can deliver you the aspect of the scriptures, I can tell you something very inner, and I can continue like that. But when I have to speak as a man it is so painful. Have you seen a car with bad gear, which doesn’t fall good in reverse well that exact it is It does tur, tur, tur in between and then it may or may not. Exactly like that I’m very short tempered as a man, very limited don’t want to discuss. As a man nothing, as a teacher you continue, I can continue for a century. It doesn’t bother me, it doesn’t bought me, it doesn’t take any energy it is a constant flow.

So well it takes time to go up, it takes time to come in. But once you practice a meditative mind it is reasonable. So meditative mind has given me that I’m not short tempered. Nobody knows it, somebody may know it somebody may not. But mostly I’m tolerant, I can tolerate my individual abusiveness projected on me by any individual very gracefully. Now this habit I had to develop because if I start reacting the way I feel I will end up having six murders a day from ten o clock to four o clock. And I’m very physically a hefty person. I think one big heavy stroke on his part can produce a felony very well.

(Students laughter)

So, what you want, you want your teacher all the time standing in the court? You can’t so when I knew in my childhood, that when anybody lies in my presence naturally it trigs a reaction in me. And I have the tendency to become physical I immediately start meditating and develop a meditative mind and I think it took me about four, five months, I was through. Then there is no trouble. So you have to understand whatever you react to, develop that reaction and put it under the clamp of a meditative mind. Your inner projection and your concept will immediately be under control and you will be a beautiful person. In a simple psychology there is no big gimmick about it. Yes please. Yeah lady.

Student: (…………..)

YB: The entire sensual, sexual, creative and defeated personality is come on the beam of the pranic body, the relationship of the pranic body with the arc body decides your receptivity and your reactions. And when you project out to the pranic body through the arc body and in between the mental body is showing a lot of anger nothing will reach out. But if there is a relaxation it will be very easy. Every projection depends upon the neutral mindNeutral Mind The most refined and often the least developed of the three Functional Minds. It judges and assesses. It witnesses and gives you clarity. It holds the power of intuition and the ability to see your purpose and destiny. It is the gateway for awareness. . You have three minds negative, positive and neutral. Whenever you want to reach out for anything. Anything outside than you reach out with a neutral mindNeutral Mind The most refined and often the least developed of the three Functional Minds. It judges and assesses. It witnesses and gives you clarity. It holds the power of intuition and the ability to see your purpose and destiny. It is the gateway for awareness. is the most grateful wonderful secret of success. From the very beginning when I started talking to you I used my neutral mindNeutral Mind The most refined and often the least developed of the three Functional Minds. It judges and assesses. It witnesses and gives you clarity. It holds the power of intuition and the ability to see your purpose and destiny. It is the gateway for awareness. . I’ll say whatever I have to say I might have offended you, I might have loved you, I might have hated you, I might have yelled at you. Or might have been very nice to you…

And that is why today even you can trust me, because I never said what I felt and I never listened to what you said.

(Students laughter)

What I did is I listen to what you said computed it and whatever came I said, “That is it.” So I simply I still use myself as your auraAura The radiant field of energy and consciousness that surrounds the physical body and which holds and organizes the seven centers of energy called chakras. Its strength, measured by brightness and radius, determines the vitality, mental concerns, and psychophysical integrity of a person. reflects. So I talk, I have never used my own attachment to it. I don’t care you get offended, I don’t care you get pleased. Because I knew from the very first day, it is not my job to make you happy. It is not to make you mad, my job is to let you know the truth. Why not to stick to it. If by knowing the truth you become unhappy ‘adios.’ Why should I bother, it’s not my job. Yeah.

Student: (…………….)

YB: Yeah, you can definitely help your children. First of all you are most fortunate all of you, you know how to meditate and teach your children how to meditate. I learnt how to meditate when I was four year old. Once you start teaching them they will get rid of lot of dirty concepts, because they have something as a substitute to relate to. If you don’t give anybody a substitute then there is a fight. Instead of a carrot you take away the carrot you give him banana, the guy will be happy. But you will take away the carrot he will say why. And you can… with children it is very happy. We used to say all right our teacher will say, look at it, this is a elephant all right you have seen it see it more see it more now close your eyes and see meditatively you can built a elephant here and we say immediately yes. He will say all right, what is a tail, how big it is, how big his four legs are, how big his body is, how are his ears, how… as a child it is very difficult if you have really not reproduced the picture to state things. But if you can really state things as you have you have seen the picture you have crossed seventy five percent of meditative mind right there you built in. But parents need time they have to sit down and play this game and develop it and what, far out. Yeah.

Student: (……………)

YB: Har and Hari are two different words.

Student: (……………)

YB: Oh that you discuss with Jasbeer Kaur. Words are too different. Yeah Siri BaniBani Literally "Word", Refers to the Word of God contained in the Sikh Sacred Writings; Banis refers to Sikh daily prayers. .

Siri BaniBani Literally "Word", Refers to the Word of God contained in the Sikh Sacred Writings; Banis refers to Sikh daily prayers. : (……………)

YB: Ha.

Siri BaniBani Literally "Word", Refers to the Word of God contained in the Sikh Sacred Writings; Banis refers to Sikh daily prayers. : (……………)

YB: Childhood negations are where you want an ice cream somebody didn’t give you. It can from there to the fact that you didn’t have parents. The fact that you didn’t have a car when you needed it, the fact you didn’t have education you wanted it. Fact you didn’t get a bed when you wanted to sleep. Fact you were hungry for a while when you needed food. There are so many circumstantial and projected negations which are uncountable and they have a effect on the child. Bibiji one day was psychotherapying somebody. She had a habit to eat sugar. Now in the child whenever she was hungry her mother couldn’t do anything except harays what you call those sweets, her mother could get sweets because she was working in a sweet, they were having (?), salary less and instead of giving a food she will give her a sweet and that became her whole thing. It is a handicap she wanted to full meal instead of with little one piece of sweet she has to just suck it to just not to feel hungry. Now that set back is mentally controlling her totally it is very unfortunate, but that’s the way it is. There can be lot of set backs where you can feel. Dejection is where you feel it is your right and it is not granted and it creates anger in you. Anger means when you do not find any legitimate way or reasonable way or rational way to get over something when you are stuck with it. It is called anger. Yeah.

Student: (……………)

YB: I have to write a whole book on it.

(Students laughter)

I think every woman know how to do it, they want to hear from me I’m not going to tell it.

(Students laughter)

Isn’t the best way to get out of it? You all know I mean I’m sorry. Western woman knows when she wants to zero at a man how to get him. That I know that is my experience. But now what you want to make it, enjoy the juice out of it.

(Students laughter)

That is it I should speak about it, no. No, no that is too much. Yes.

Student: (……………..)

YB: It is very important how you sleep, if you at night do not take one or two turns to sleep on belly you will have so many stomach problems and you will have so many nervous problems and you will have so many bowels problems you can’t even believe. Sleeping is most important than working. All these people who have heart problem they only sleep on one side.

Student: (…………….)

YB: Going to sleep is very simple. It is so simple going to sleep is just lie down and start chanting GurbaniGurbani Word of the Guru, Refers particularly to the words from the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. in one minute you will be hooked.

(Students laughter)

I tell you sleeping is so, it is so easy the most easy, just lie down and you are not sleeping. You will say well let me read japjiJapji , Japji Sahib The Song of the Soul written by the First Sikh Guru, Guru Naanak Dayv Jee. Saadhana opens with a recitation of Japji each morning at 3:40 am. A mantra, poem, and inspired religious scripture composed by Guru Nanak. Japji Sahib gives a view of the cosmos, the soul, the mind, the challenge of life, and the impact of our actions. Its 40 stanzas are a source of many mantras and can be used as a whole or in part to guide both your mind and your heart. , you won’t go three pouris when you will be, gutkha will be...

(Yogiji’s laughter)

Any time when you want to sleep, meditate on God and sleep will come.

(Students laughter)

It doesn’t matter how disturbed you are.

Student: (…………….)

YB: No, no wherever your body, your body directs the side of the sleep, never try to command it. In America fifty percent people get heart attack because they want to sleep facing towards their wife at night.

(Students laughter)

Ridiculous, you want to sleep give her back sleep, she won’t give you heart attack but bad sleep will. Don’t misunderstand, sleep where your body wants, you not where your wife or your husband wants you.

Student: (…………….)

YB: In marriage, when financial problem starts hampering in marriage, marriage is in a rocky water. Most women pick up financial situation as a way to divorce. Actually in marriage finances are mutual. Eighty percent of the marriages get ruined on financial disputes who should control the finance. Actually it is a very frank I’m not very accustomed with financial problem myself. Because I have never handled in my life my own finances. When I was in India Bibiji used to handle it. Absolutely, I have never touched the money I don’t know what she does with it. But I always knew after one week it was all gone.

(Students laughter)

So I prayed and prayed and prayed and when I came to America ShaktiShakti The creative power and principle of existence itself. Without it nothing can manifest or bloom. It is feminine in nature. handled the finance and to get a cent out of her you have to write five cents letter.

(Students laughter)

Works out to my advantage it is okay.

Student: (……………..)

(Students laughter)

YB: That is the best compliment I ever got, oh lady I don’t teach you for this lifetime. This is the teaching which I have to share with you, which the generation will be competent and capable to retain to practice in the other coming five thousand years and that will par time is twentieth of nineteen hundred eighteen and that will be two thousand eleven. But there are fortunately more meditationMeditation Dhyan. It is a process of deep concentration or merger into an object or a state of consciousness. Meditation releases reactions and unconscious habits and build the spontaneous and intuitive link to awareness itself. than you can even do and just perfect anybody and that will give you meditative mind to analyze, concept clear project know the pros and cons and it will give you. That is what I tell you what is a kundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. . It is a total technology, it is not a religion. It is not a not a religion, it is a total technology in which one develops intuitive comprehensive and comparative mind and that mind has a faculty to give you applied intelligence and applied intelligence is a way to spiritual world and spiritual world is a way to God I mean we have figured it out.

Student: (……………..)

YB: It is just like that I’m a human being too. You know I was just like you I had the age, I had the body, I had the time, I had the temper, I had the food, I had this, I had that. But I decided with everything else I have to be myself and without applied intelligence you are never yourself. You are a monkey anybody can put a doog, doog, doog before you and make you dance I never wanted it. That is why I can participate I can convince anybody I can listen to anything, but in the end you will find me doing what I want to do and the day somebody will make me to do what somebody wants me to do that day you will hear it very clearly that I was physically dead. I will not like to live one moment after that it will be very disgraceful, very painful and very tragic. When I have to do what somebody else wants me to do, no way. But you can’t achieve that thing but if you feel so sincere about it, develop your applied intelligence. There is nothing in between I am telling you, there is no way to skip here skip there cut corner cut corner doesn’t work that way it has never worked with anybody. How can it work with you, how can it work with me? So you have to pay the price for it and that is the price, yeah.

Student: (……………)

YB: I think in the women, I did not know in this women’s camp we are doing anything, which we should be very hard on you. I think every date you can make the arrangements you can hear the tapes. First of all if you are here there are lot of other activities but as far as knowledge my reflexes are concerned they are all on the tape. And if you have to do because you have a job. You can all talk to SatSat Existence; what is; the subtle essence of Infinity itself. Kripal Kaur to mail you a tape regularly. I think that is the only tragedy that you are not here. I fully understand but I also fully understand some of you cannot be here. So in that situation I think the tape service is very good if some people try, but and also it is wonderful when you are driving instead of listening to that lousy music you can put up a tape.

I don’t think I think in this modern time we are very fortunate that we have this electro magnetic communicative availability and with our readiness immediately, if somebody can work out to put A tape on A subject of life. Suppose what is depression, depression is a self destructive coerciveness of oneself on oneself. It is a very good statement if you just reread it to yourself you will get out of depression without any pill. What happens is, this is what GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. is. If you remember the GurbaniGurbani Word of the Guru, Refers particularly to the words from the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. and remember the course then when the time hits you the protective shield of the word of the GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. comes handy and it gives you meaningful purpose at that time to pull up your spirit. That is what GurbaniGurbani Word of the Guru, Refers particularly to the words from the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. has done for me. But when I am in a circumstances suppose I get up in the morning and I hear GurbaniGurbani Word of the Guru, Refers particularly to the words from the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. and it is a very beautiful shabadShabad , Shabd Sound, especially subtle sound or sound imbued with consciousness. It is a property or emanation of consciousness itself. If you meditate on shabad it awakens your awareness. very inspiring very elevating. It elevates me I understand. The hearing of GurbaniGurbani Word of the Guru, Refers particularly to the words from the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. has created in me a state of mind in which I’m very unaffected by what goes around. Yeah, Argentina what is it? You had a question right you raised the hand.

Student: (………….)

YB: What do you think.

Student: (………….)

YB: Oh yeah lot of people think I don’t notice lot of things that is the one blessing. First ask the one.

Student: (………….)

YB: There are some sick people in our 3HO family they are very sick they are lazy, they are coward and the kundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. , they are very ungrateful. The kundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. , which brought them to GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. ’s gate, they are even trying to abandon that, it is just like that filthy man who rides a horse when reaches the GurdwaraGurdwara Literally the door of the Guru; traditional place where Sikh worship services are held. kills it and eats it. Did I express myself very honestly?

Students: Yes sir.

YB: There are such sick people in our family and God curse take them away sooner so the other may not be misguided. We came to this dharmaDharma A path of righteous living. It is both an ideal of virtue and a path of action that is infused with clear awareness and comprised of actions that are the soul in total synchrony with the universe. It is action without reaction or karma. through kundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. . KundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. is a yoga of the cherdhi kala, some Indians are sick they want to exploit certain American faculties and facilities. And they are trying to spread this dirty word and certain ladies who do not have good relationship with their husband, have good image of their life have fallen prey to them and we are going to get rid of them very soon. I’m going to send them a letter of thanks and they can go and live with those idiots. I’m getting very sick and tired of these people. It’s a lie and is a lie being prevailed and being preached by certain motivated inward KGB agent or another word CIA.

(Students laughter)

It is not true. It cannot be true, our minds cannot hold GurbaniGurbani Word of the Guru, Refers particularly to the words from the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. until just prepare, the land is prepared and watered properly. That is why to clean our subconscious we do tantric yoga. To clean our mind and body and make us fit to recite the naamNaam , Nam The manifested identity of the essence. The word derives from Naa-ay-ma , which means "that which is not, now is born." A Naam gives identity, form, and expression to that which was only essence or subtle before. It is also referred to as the Word. , we do kundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. . And it has to be blessedly well clear and understood, yes.

Student: (……………)

YB: SevaSeva Selfless Service. the heart of the Aashram experience is serving each other. does not mean you kill yourself. In the name of sevaSeva Selfless Service. the heart of the Aashram experience is serving each other. a person cannot be exploited. You do my entire laundry it is a sevaSeva Selfless Service. the heart of the Aashram experience is serving each other. and I go to see a movie. I understand what is happening to you is I want to make you understand, certain people went to India. Psychologically they were very weak and Indians are very good in hospitality and they think that you are all GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. Sikh and GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. BhaiBhai Brother. and when you visit India they extend their hospitality and their love and everything and they cater to some of the egos. So for a Indian to become a Sikh is to be born or just to like it. They do not go and work it through kundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. or work with tantric yoga. So they don’t understand that part of it. So what happened is some of the people get sucked into that mayaMaya The creative power of the Creator that restricts and limits. It creates the sense of limitation that leads us to identify with experience, the ego, and things. Because of this it is often thought of as the illusion that blocks us from the spirit. But, as Guru Nanak (see Sikh Gurus) reminds us, you need not be attached to the productions of maya. Instead they can be used to serve and express the higher consciousness and spirit. Maya is simply Karta Purkh, the doing of the Great Being. Maya takes the ineffable into the realm of the measurable. . And in that some of our leaders are also involved. So for a while this relationship continues. And it is a very unfortunate to stay here.

There is a group in India, their ditched situation was that I should never physically safely visit India so that people may not like to hear me and my point of view and meanwhile they were stretching themselves to exploit the American people because one thing we have that we can attract crowd, lot of crowd we can attract so it was a very political motivated move and in certain situations I have seen some girls who have gone to India, they have left doing their yoga, left doing their sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. and finally I found them leaving even reciting their Gurbanis and one fine day ill luck would have it they just even left.

(Students laughter)

And it is a very it is not a big group in our people it is about three, four, five people totally and they have clicked and they have negativity and they telephone each other very regularly their telephone bill is very high so we are not trying to outwardly show indifference. There was a letter from Gurumath which I read in the class. She said, “Tell my American brothers and sisters you are more near to the GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. than an ordinary Indian man who doesn’t even understand what he is reading and in one raagRaag A traditional melodic mode of the Indian classical music system. the same words in Siri GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. GranthGranth Literally: knot: book. means differently than in other.” And she said, “It is two hundred years that all the wise men could produce a better translation.” And she was very appreciative of Mohan Singh’s translation, which we all read and it is available.

I want to tell you something today, you thank your stars that you are American and you thank your luck that you have procured yourself to walk on this path very fast. I had the privilege to live in India thirty-nine years I was a great yogiYogi One who has attained a state of yoga (union) where polarities are mastered and transcended. One who practices the disciplines of yoga and has attained self-mastery. but a very poor Sikh. If I have learnt anything about Sikhism I have learnt while coming here. When I was not to live conventionally as a Sikh I have to sit down and understand what Sikhism is and I was supposed to answer for every question then I dug deep through my intuitive self look into it, found it, experienced it, so that I can say it.

Sikhism is a seeker’s way of life and you seek experience and not philosophy. Philosophy is to guide you and cover you. Do’s and don’ts are to inspire you or to stop you. But basically it is a experience, whosoever shall speak shall end up being taught after by the divine who created. It is a beautiful path among all the religion and I appreciate it. But people who wants to be Sikh because of ego and because some hankypanky. Each and every religion provide talk about it. So whosoever had said to you, if you have not slapped that person I’m grateful. You have shown a very great control, but he did he or she did deserve a slap. It is very insulting that people who come through the way become so ungrateful in such a short time. Yeah.

Student: (……………..)

YB: Well, I don’t feel that you should inspire anybody I can tell you right now. A person who is not doing kundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. is going to be weaker and weaker and weaker is a warning. KundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. is what kundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. is a technology through which we get our mind, self, body everything together do it and make him to do it. I have seen lot of women they don’t want to do it, because they don’t want to get up in the morning. Cold water bucket is the answer. Give them a bath in their bed.

(Students laughter)

What is the way to control our mind and control our ego and control our destructive self. If you do Hata yoga it takes twenty two years. If you do Raaj yoga it will do eighteen years, if you do bhaktiBhakti Self-purification, The devotional form of yoga practiced by a Bhakta. yoga it may take one life and many, many lives even to do bhaktiBhakti Self-purification, The devotional form of yoga practiced by a Bhakta. yoga God knows there is no limit if you… What should I say? It is only in kundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. if you properly adjust yourself to the yoga in ninety days you can become normal to start proceeding towards progress. There is nothing in the scripture available what should I say. And people who criticize kundaliniKundalini Comes from the word "kundal"; coiled energy; the creative potential of an individual. Kundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. yogaKundalini Yoga It is a Raaj Yoga that creates vitality in the body, balance in the mind, and openness to the spirit. It is used by the householder, busy in the world, to create immediate clarity. The fourth Guru in the Sikh tradition, Guru Ram Das, was acknowledged as the greatest Raaj Yogi. (See Raaj Yogi.) He opened this long secret tradition to all. are only those who are our enemies they are blackmailers they have something to grind. Indians.

I was discussing today with Prabhjot Kaur and Inderpal. In India they are very, very because white skinned people have ruled them for two hundred (?). So they say white skinned woman they freak out. It is a hidden sexual and sensual projection. Which you people don’t understand for you it is a very ordinary thing. But for them you are the white swank coming from heaven. But in America you are not going to survive as a Sikh or anything, if you let the yoga go, because that is you need each day to built yourself up, you need each day to clamp yourself up, you need each day to control your insanity. Our mind is too fast and too vast. It is a vast mind it is a corrupt mind. Two hundred years have corrupted it sexually we are corrupt, socially we are corrupt, ethically we are corrupt. We can hold ourself, it is not a restricted society. India is a orthodox society Burma, Thailand, you go in Thailand it is so orthodox you can’t do from one ritual to the other. This is the society where everything is acceptable. Yeah.

Student: (……………)

YB: No mothering you can do, wait a minute. No, no mothering take a man who is real Shiva when Parbhati his wife started mothering him, he ran away from her. If mothering was required I should never have married. Inflow of mothering they call it, it is that soothness that comfort that pain-taking faculty of the woman. When she sleeps on the wet side and let the child sleep on the dry side and doesn’t complain. It is non complaining intake of torture.

(Students laughter)

Did I say it right? What did I say.

Students: Non complaining intake of torture.

YB: That is… are you kidding. You make a man to sleep on the wet side one night next night he will be in the motel. And mother will sleep day in and day out. I mean what are you talking about, you it is in you. I want one man give him twenty pounds of lead and tie him at his belly and ask him to walk with it for nine months.

(Students laughter)

One man on the planet you won’t find it. I mean you are crazy you think they are equalat. You when you acquaint with a man there you start the trouble. Eleven years I have been talking to you, you have nothing equal with him. Am I right? Thanks for agreeing after eleven years. Yeah.

Student: (……………..)

YB: Well, question is, in 3HO it is the most easy. In 3HO there is no broken family. 3HO is a family in itself, and if one is not so grateful for and in gratitude of this wonderful gift, which God has provided us our 3HO family then what I can say. I want to know right now, is in 3HO anybody has been abandoned so far?

Students: No.

YB: And what a wonderful family it is. Even we have lived with the sickest people and carried on. So we have provided a substitute to begin with. I don’t think broken family applies to us at all. Yeah Gurutirith Kaur. Oh first of all I’m trying to find your husband since morning and I think you have some intuitive mind you can track him down faster than anybody else.

(Students laughter)

If you get that chancellor of mine ask him to call me and I will bring cookies for you tomorrow.

(Students laughter)

Go ahead what you said.

Gurutirith Kaur: (……………)

YB: Well, first of all any older son you have he is competing with a father and every good wife will have a older son very, very nasty. It is a very simple psychological problem and I think such older son should be sent to the Khalsa training camp and that will be nice and secondly whenever the child will start questioning you. Just turn him around and discuss with him as you discuss with your husband and don’t worry about the age, matter will be totally resolved. It is called the growing bull, you know what is the growing bull symptoms. Growing bull start horning left and right anywhere putting the dust out doesn’t mean anything. The big bull can lay him out in one second.

(Students laughter)

But you know lot of dust, lot of trouble, lot of problems. So you want him to be a big man then that is the start of the symptom deal with it, that’s the technique. I deal with my older son like that as I deal with my grandfather. He tells me, he’ll say man it is a hell of job to be a YogiYogi One who has attained a state of yoga (union) where polarities are mastered and transcended. One who practices the disciplines of yoga and has attained self-mastery. Bhajan’s son don’t you understand.

(Students laughter)

And I say, yes son I know it is all right don’t worry. You know, we gave our son because he drives a car so I gave him Mercedes so he cannot push it fast he cannot ride it hard. He cannot, he can be spotted.

(Students laughter)

You know it was my intention to understand and track him down when I was right and it carried Yogiji behind it so it was okay. One day he came he said papa I want a favor from you I said, “What is it?” He said, “I want a small Mazda.”

(Students laughter)

I had to agree. But he never knew that registration number I still remember, all these kids do those things, it is very minor thing. But if you think they can’t do it then there is something wrong mentally with them. If the elder son does not give you trouble he is mentally retarded.

(Students laughter)

Yeah.

Student: (……………)

YB: You are very fortunate.

(Students laughter)

Whenever you have a problem with sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. you are very fortunate. Then that is the time there is something to beat out.

Student: (…………….)

YB: Nothing just beat it out.

(Students laughter)

Go through it, whenever you have a problem with sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. the luck is smiling at you. That is what you are waiting for. There is a challenge and you can challenge and go through it. Yep.

Student: (…………….)

YB: Ha, challengingly by doing it.

Student: (…………….)

YB: Oh I have to listen now I can just pose with you. Once I was to do my part and it is a pretty one two three eleven banis something like that. And this is how I was reading.

(Students laughter)

It took me exact four hours.

(Students laughter)

I went through it.

(Students applause)

I have gone through it. What the hell you people are talking to me part and sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. . It is the most sometimes boring unwanted negative unrelated act.

(Students applause)

But I know it, I have to do it and that is the best way to do it. Once while doing one japjiJapji , Japji Sahib The Song of the Soul written by the First Sikh Guru, Guru Naanak Dayv Jee. Saadhana opens with a recitation of Japji each morning at 3:40 am. A mantra, poem, and inspired religious scripture composed by Guru Nanak. Japji Sahib gives a view of the cosmos, the soul, the mind, the challenge of life, and the impact of our actions. Its 40 stanzas are a source of many mantras and can be used as a whole or in part to guide both your mind and your heart. I had to go to put cold water on my eyes five times it is very painful. But I did it, moment I read slok, “Som GuruGuru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. Pawan Pita…

(Students laughter)

That is the only feeling this is the only achievement I’m proud of, it is the only achievement I’m proud of. I was once in Kashmir, I had a absolutely terrible time and I wanted to sleep and I forgot my baniBani Literally "Word", Refers to the Word of God contained in the Sikh Sacred Writings; Banis refers to Sikh daily prayers. and I just remembered I said, oh my God I didn’t do it today, what did I do. I went out I satSat Existence; what is; the subtle essence of Infinity itself. in the cold I got pneumonia though, but I still did my baniBani Literally "Word", Refers to the Word of God contained in the Sikh Sacred Writings; Banis refers to Sikh daily prayers. . I didn’t care. I have sometimes taken a bath, I won’t advise you I survived. I don’t know you will survive or not. I had a terrible temperature and against medical advise I took cold shower and did what I did. Because to me it is beautiful to die than to let my sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. go whatever it is, period. That is how I live, I don’t care what you say, I don’t care what doctor say, I don’t care what U.S.A. law say, and what your confession code says I have my own code of life, sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. is my code between me and my God. Nobody is going to come in between and I don’t say very proudly that I’m perfect, but I do not I know one thing. I may have to linger on and laying on and scroll and stall and whatever happens to me. If I have to do it I have to do it and it shall be done. That is called thy will shall be done. I couldn’t do my Ph. D in India, didn’t I hang in here. So (?).

(Yogiji’s laughter)

It is all right I taught eight years in the UCLA with the hope that they will say all right, we will give it to you.

(Students laughter)

With such a cheap money they took away all these idiots took away everything from me. When I see now I have to work for it.

Student: (…………..)

YB: You know it is okay. You know you have to have that kind of mind you have to have that mind which must tell you that there is something higher than you. Catering to that higher than you is making you higher than all others. You understand the secret, well that is it. Yeah.

Student: (…………..)

YB: Children cannot take two o’ clock pressure but we wake them up about four, five o’ clock and their sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. is about an hour.

Student: (…………..)

YB: Yeah, yeah. Children are children they are little their sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. is little too.

(Students laughter)

Ah yeah.

Student: (…………..)

YB: If you want to teach your child sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. when you do your sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. when you are practicing meditate on your child. Do it for nine months, ten months when he is born. Your child will meditate the very first day he is born. You can mentally concentrate on a child in the very womb and even teach him a mantraMantra Sounds or words that tune or control the mind. Man means mind. Tra-ng is the wave or movement of the mind. Mantra is a wave, a repetition of sound and rhythm that directs or controls the mind. When you recite a mantra you have impact through the meridian points in the mouth, through its meaning, through its pattern of energy, through its rhythm, and through its naad - energetic shape in time. Recited correctly a mantra will activate areas of the nervous system and brain and allow you to shift your state and the perceptual vision or energetic ability associated with it. . I have seen a mother successfully teaching a child “Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. .” And when he will even come out and talk exact words “Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. ” was pronounced and he was only two days old.

Student: “Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. .”

YB: But she meditated on the child very first day he came out almost ten months and two days something like that, but he was chanting “Wahe Wahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. GuruWahe Guru , Whaa-hay Guroo A mantra of ecstasy and dwelling in God. It is the Infinite teacher of the soul. Also called the gur mantra. Guru That which takes us from ignorance to knowledge; from darkness, gu, to light, ru. It can be a person, a teaching, or in its most subtle form - the Word. ” when he came out and it is possible, it is practical and it is not a, any miracle or anything. Child can be taught if you can teach a parrot to fire a cannon that little cannon.

(Students laughter)

Have you seen that?

Students: Yes sir.

YB: Why can’t your child not meditate I don’t understand it at all. It takes training it takes two biscuits to train whole thing. What time is now?

Student: (………….)

YB: Okay, what is your question.

Student: (…………..)

YB: Yeah, but basically while if you know your man in couple of days you can recognize.

Student: (…………..)

YB: No, no, no at work at work at a social function men are self guardians. It is at home it is when he is with you. You can recognize at that time, he won’t answer your question, he just plays that num dumb and whole thing. I mean it is very easy to recognize where is that. I remember in between a husband and wife once a man was at very big fight. They had a terrible fight between themselves and he called her up. He said, “Would you come just now and put me to sleep, but don’t stay here.” And she said, “Okay darling.” And she went and she stayed with him and she came out and next morning he moved back home and there was no argument at all. He called, she responded it was a established affair that is it. The whole matter was forgotten all together. Yeah.

Student: (……………)

YB: Yeah, but sometimes if he is very demanding and sexual. There are some people who are just beast of sex, I know them, without sex they can’t even talk. Start comparing them and they will be asleep, you will find fifteen minutes next thing they are snoring they are off your back.

(Students laughter)

They are asking for sex it may not happen you go crazy of it, he is again on the trip, oh my God.

(Students laughter)

I have seen a girl I said what are you doing one o’ clock gossiping there since. Sir should I go back home and I understood it. I said yeah go back. And next day I talked to her privately I understood it. She was horrible. Do you want to know what her life was, whatever time she gets into bed till the time she gets up for sadhanaSadhana , Saadhana A spiritual discipline; the early morning practice of yoga, meditation, and other spiritual exercises. The Aquarian Sadhana can be an individual or group practice; Ideally, it includes the recitation of Japji Sahib, a Kundalini Yoga kriya, and chanting the Aquarian Sadhana meditations, immediately followed by Gurdwara. According to Yogi Bhajan, the potency of any Kundalini Yoga and meditation practice will be enhanced in a group setting. it was a continuous sexual process. And we do not know how that man is alive.

(Students laughter)

We have to investigate.

(Students laughter)

There are some who just live in the second chakraChakra , Chaakra The word connotes a wheel in action. It usually refers to the seven primary energy centers in the aura that align along the spine from its base to the top of the skull. Each chakra is a center of consciousness with a set of values, concerns, and powers of action associated with it. what you can do. May the long time sunshine…

Students: “May the long time sunshine upon you…”

YB: Please sit. Learn this very well, be blessed, rejoice, times are going to be very hard but they are going to be ours.

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